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steve  ·  4130 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Are/Were You Looking For (in a relationship)? Did You Find It?

I know you're just generating conversation, so I hope it won't sound disrespectful if I disagree with the question. You know I love you lil. :)

I don't worry much about what I want(ed) from the other person - rather, I spend my life focusing on what I can give to that person.

Some might say "Oh no steve! that's codependence!"

To them I reply, not if it goes both ways.

Great relationships aren't 50/50. They're 100/100.