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lil  ·  4127 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What Are/Were You Looking For (in a relationship)? Did You Find It?

thx ref. I'll answer this gradually. When I was 19, I wrote in my journal, "I want a man who will leave me alone." It doesn't sound very romantic, but it does sound a lot like what onehunna is talking about. -- Of course I want a lot more than that, but being left alone and what that means will take more time than I have at the moment.