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thenewgreen  ·  4256 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Real Problem With Hooking Up: Bad Sex

I've been out of the "hookup" game for nearly 10 years now, but I had my fair share of them prior to meeting my wife. Honestly, most of them weren't that bad, but there were a few that stand out like diamonds in a pile of slightly less shiny diamonds. There's no doubt that both spontaneous sex with a relatively unknown partner and "meaningful" "emotional" sex can be gratifying. There is a reason couples "role-play" to keep it fresh. That said, some of the acts and situations mentioned seem deplorable and I don't think I'd enjoy them much.