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OftenBen  ·  2910 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: Who Would You Like to Talk to and What About?

I want to meet my parents when they were my age. I want to understand them, and who they were before their lives took the massive twist that was my birth and diagnosis. I want to see what their relationship was like for the 2 months they had a healthy, happy baby, no mountains of debt, no years of worry and stress added to them.

Basically, I want to see if their relationship was always doomed, or if I was a causative agent for their eventual separation.

Some questions just don't have answers.