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user-inactivated  ·  3387 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How do I deal with my parents' possessive control of me?

    and haven't lived with her since I was 14

May I ask how that happened?

    It may not be what you needed or currently need but it is out of love or they wouldn't waste their time.

I never thought about it this way. They must have some interest in me, I guess, even if it's misguided.

    Hard to teach someone who needs a different answer than anything you know are can even conceive of.

What do you think I do, then? What if I have to tell them something they don't want to hear - one of those nonsensical answers of mine again?