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steve  ·  3415 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Do You Need in a Relationship?

ok... lots of work this morning - but this post is rattling around in the back of my head and won't let me focus. Here's another thought:

What do you have to offer in a relationship? Instead of whatI need, or am looking to get, I feel it equally or more important to understand what I have to give. The longer the relationship goes on - the more important this gets. To foster a relationship, you need to feed it, finding new ways to give to your partner, and develop deeper connections.

(not that you don't know/understand that - I just thought it worth saying.)