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Idonknowwhattodo  ·  3423 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Me [31 M] with my girlfriend [29 F] of 3 years, am I wasting her life?

Thanks a lot for your (contrarian) answer!

Do I love her the right way? I deeply care about her. I'm not sure I can identify what it means to marry for the right reasons.

But yes, I need to talk to her. But I feel so lost. I wanted to know what questions I should ask myself and be able to answer. After I have that, I can put myself in a position where I need to now some answers for my side of the conversation.