Good ideas and conversation. No ads, no tracking. Login or Take a Tour!
lil · 3764 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Did You Learn about Yourself from Your Last Relationship? Part II
Ironman - it is so important what you are saying here. When we take responsibility for our part, we are able to grow into better people. When we just blame, we lose that chance. I hope you find what works best for you.Like how bad I actually am compared to what I think about myself.
That is particularly hard to see, because in any story, we want to cast ourselves as the hero in some way. And Im seriously doubting if I should ever be in relationships.
Good mutually happy relationships can require a lot of work and practice. Many people find them worth the work.