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OftenBen  ·  3880 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Lil's Book of Questions: When Have You Felt the Most Free?

To be a little bit of a contrarian, I feel a little more free when I'm in a relationship. I'm free to not put up a strong, confident front all the time. I'm free to be more myself around people I don't know, because I have no mating-instinct-driven desire to impress and peacock around.

But, because I'm single more than I'm in a relationship, this may be (Most likely is) a grass is always greener type deal.