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steve  ·  3949 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: On Seeing the 100% Perfect Girl One Beautiful April Morning, by Haruki Murakami

    the idea of a soul mate (or 100% perfect girl) is just a myth

I couldn't agree more. There are certainly people we are more compatible with than others, but there's way too much emphasis placed on finding a soulmate or "the one".

Instead, I believe we should focus on selflessness and loving the one you're married to, not an eternal search for the mythical one that requires no effort other than finding.