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lil  ·  1334 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Beneath The Table

the sun don't shine

the moon don't stir

when I'm hiding beneath the table

the dogs don't bite

the shouting blurs

beneath the table

When I finally found my voice it was too late to say a thing

the terrors that I seen

seemed like tidal waves in dreams

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I didn't get all the words . . . but finding your voice is so crucial --

So for me that invites these questions:

1. How do we find our voices IN TIME -- before "it's too late to say a thing"

2. When is it too late? Is it ever too late?

3. Every time we find our voice to declare our truth,we become vulnerable --- it terrifies people who want to silence us. Thus it is easier initially to hide under the table -- but while you're there, under the table, practice practice practice.

The caring loving parent, teacher, partner, or friend will open you to your own voice by showing their interest and willingness to listen.

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thenewgreen  ·  1334 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Lil, Thank you for listening. I added the lyrics in the post now. Finding your voice is VERY crucial. At times mine seems stronger than others.

I was talking with a friend and she mentioned that she spent a lot of time hiding beneath her table as a child when things were, "rough." She also saw a tragic car accident as a child and has a recurring dream that she is in a tsunami and can't/won't run. But tidal wave is easier to make in to a lyric than tsunami. I also had a friend of mine die last week. 42 years old and he left behind a beautiful family. Incredibly sad stuff. I think all of this is wrapped up in this song.

I've been in bi-weekly therapy for some time now, but it's been "remote," and it just doesn't seem to be as effective. I think that's probably a pretty good analogy for life in general. Yeah, we can all zoom, etc but it's just not as effective.

I'm dealing with some incredibly heavy stuff personally right now. Your question, "is it ever too late?" is a timely one. Maybe someday I'll write up what's happening. It's worth noting that it's a family matter that doesn't involve my wife/kids but still it's some heavy stuff.

I know you are going through some heavy stuff too, my friend. I'll comment in pubski. I really appreciate you taking the time to listen, lil. You're phenomenally intuitive.