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comment by kleinbl00
kleinbl00  ·  2455 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Got temporarily banned from a class

Just be very careful not to threaten anything or imply a threat of anything until you are certain she's not going to budge. From a combat perspective she already exposed her flank by striking prematurely and without any backing strength. You don't want her to double down on her position if you can help it.

Be the supplicant. Supplicants are non-threatening. And if you fail, you don't have to be supplicating anymore and she's got to know it.