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OftenBen  ·  2500 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why American men are getting less marriageable

    But it's easy enough to come around and shift instead of making a stink about it.

That was your experience. Some may find that more difficult and I'm not certain that's some kind of moral failing.





_refugee_  ·  2500 days ago  ·  link  ·  

a) i updated

b) yes of course it was my experience. i thought as i wrote that sentence that, as a confessed bisexual, i probably have more flexible views on gender roles in relationships than the average bear does. i'm aware. clearly i need someone else who feels the same way as i do about that in a relationship

OftenBen  ·  2499 days ago  ·  link  ·  

That's great self awareness.