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lil  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Let's talk about two things they say never to talk about:

    My best friends are on Hubski.
Well, let's just say that we have more to say to each other here than in our distracting embodied form. My hubski dreams are very embodied.




thenewgreen  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

I've invited my best friends to be on Hubski though. So, I have the best of both worlds. I have friends from college on Hubski, former co-workers, musicians I've played with etc. that I've invited here and that now visit regularly.

I wish that more Hubski users would invite their friends from "meatspace" to the site. I think it would benefit from this type of growth as opposed to huge influxes from disenfranchised users of other social aggregators.

Invite your friends dammit!

I too have dreams of Hubski folk btw.

Also, and totally unrelated, I learned the word "paramour" today. Thanks.

lil  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Do you have a template of an invitation with a description and some instructions and words on why it's wonderful? If one doesn't exist, maybe we or someone should write one. I find that people that I've shown it to do not really get it or see themselves as already too busy wasting their time on other websites.

thenewgreen  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Lil, I don't think such a thing exists, but it is a really good idea. We are in the midst of creating a "welcome video." Perhaps, having this ready when the video is would be a good idea. You want to take a crack at writing it?

lil  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

You can't get out of it that easily, tng. You have invited friends and I bet you did it via email with a little intro and description, so you'll have to send that along to me (cleaned up of course).

Anyway, I'm beyond swamped right now -- but maybe in a couple of weeks. This would actually be a fun thing to do collaboratively with humanodon or anyone. Sort of like those political campaign templates I get all the time to send to a politician.

Even if there was an Invite-A-Friend-To-Hubski template, I can't see myself actually using it. I have wonderful friends who have visited here such as Sergio and ellens-s-jaffe briefly, or JA_Kennedy just to comment on the poetry, but that was it.

On the other hand, if they knew how we get to know one another in such profound ways . . .

thenewgreen  ·  3744 days ago  ·  link  ·  

Yeah, I don't think I have emailed many people about it, but mostly they ask me about it because they know I am one of the co-founders. They'll see me post stuff to FB etc. I also tend to invite people to the site in person and not via emails. Also, if you don't think you'd ever use it, then perhaps it's not worth creating.

It's really hard to convey what makes the place special because it really is about the community. How do you convey this? Someone really needs to experience it.