I am from an adoptive family. About a year ago I was contacted by a girl who is theoretically my niece looking to get in touch with my sister (university fling kid), and my sister has absolutely no desire to do that. I am pretty conflicted about that and we have kept in touch but never met in person.
Now today I just found out that my brother sought out and contacted his biological mother and traveled internationally to meet her. My Mother is understandably upset as it was done in secret and she only found out when he posted a picture of them on FB and I don't quite understand it either.
Any insight?