The reality is humiliation doesn't work to change behavior. But natural consequences do.

Check the law in the area you live. In my city it's against the law to park on the sidewalk portion of the driveway. Take pics and email or snail mail them anonymously to the police. This was the tactic before cell phones, where disability advocates used Polaroids of nondisabled drivers parking in protected parking spots. to document and send in the info to the police or in this case the DOT would also issue tickets, and tickets can be issued by mail. They were glad to do so. Tickets bring in revenue and It took zero work on their part.

To clarify, these are people without proper handicap accessible parking tags. Not just someone who doesn't "look" disabled. There are plenty of invisible disabilities.

It might be tempting to photo a person in a wheelchair or other visible disability being forced out into the street, but in the past they were often given tickets...so it's a bit sticky. I am not sure if that is still the case.

Another problem with the sticker is that it doesn't teach other people:the audience, anything about why it's bad to park there, which is actually very important. Most people just don't know. Or don't think.

Vigilantes generally only accomplish short term attention, whether negative or positive and not change. Advocates both show and tell, must come across as fair and reasonable. It's all a matter of looking inside and ask yourself are you wanting to vent your frustration or put it to work.

Fwiw

Won't it become much less obvious when people are filming via google glass? As recording devices get smaller, and less obtrusive, and turned on without notice, how will we know when we are being recorded? We don't always know when we are right now (by random strangers).

This is a particular concern for women and children, who's everyday, ordinary activities can be sexualized and uploaded to the Internet without their knowledge or consent, even now.

This made me wonder about an NPR story on memory, and research into how people mistakenly remember events that happened to other people, as their own memories, and if there is a connection to that phenomena.

I tried to make a quick search for it, but came up empty.

I wonder if any story lines become unusable, like the example of certain phrases, like "rough day" evolving to not evoke the other brain areas.

Thanks! Yeah, maybe I'd change wiping to tending...

I was thinking about djw's ideas, and going over it in my head off on and on yesterday, and couldn't quite make the change.

It might make it better, but it also changed it into a different poem. And this was the one in me. Though, I don't write poetry and never studied it, so I was afraid it might come off a bit limerick-ish :)

I hide in busy

It's not my fault

I gave life and life is wrought

In feeding and cleaning and tending without end

I didn't want my mother's life

But that is what I got

            Edit: changed the fourth line from wiping to tending

I once was a temp, at a job I had been at like forever, and I still remember that "real" employees got paid to go give blood and temps had to go on our own time. I mean, they always had to do stuff to differentiate. Even that. :/

I've been on the bone marrow registry forever. At the time it was free, I took part of a drive. Then a few years later they were charging people to the costs to get the blood work done etc., which was not inexpensive. I know it does cost money to run such a program but it seemed like a barrier for people. I'd say cut out the quarterly four color glossy newsletters to myself. I hope they changed that policy.

It's tough to add to what's already been said, but one odd habit that pops up now and again, even though it's been a long, long time since I worked as a hostess and a waitress, is looking up when someone comes in a door. It comes from those times when there were lulls between rushes, and no preparations left to do, when we'd gather and talk, usually behind a barrier of some kind. There would always be a straggler group to come in, that wasn't in on that mysterious universal clock everyone else was on (that had nothing to do with time) that created rushes of unknown origin.

The best memories and friends come from the restaurant I worked at the longest, while in college. It was the hot restaurant to go to, at the time. There was a weird kind of pride in that. It was hard to get a job there. Some of the most creative and smart people I had yet to meet, I met there. It was my first contact, right out of high school, with actual artists and writers, theater and film grad students.

Being taken in as one of their own gave me confidence to go from undeclared academic drifter and go all in on art.

My proudest moment was learning to balance the giant trays, and be able to move quickly and seamlessly around the chaos with them fully loaded.

I also took a lot of dance classes back then, so busy Friday and Saturday nights felt like a kind of ballet. But a common work dream was not of dance but war. Our restaurant combined into an old WWII movie, and between bombings and bullets we kept our stations running.

And nothing beat the beer afterwards, or the banter in between.

Thank you for hubski!

Nice!

My only suggestions would be that it be printed in the gray color of hubski rather than black... And use the exact typeface used here.

Graphic designer here.

Fwiw, the proportions (at least looking at it in a photo rather than first hand) the proportions are different than your actual icons on the site... In relation to each other the center circle is bigger and the orbiting circles are smaller here, than they are on the sticker.

The placement of the name hubski may feel off to people because it is not in the power position. Ie: western writing systems that is the lower right hand corner...

I have not been here long, but it seems you might go with the paper choice of the gray background as it is on the site, if that is an option, and print the blue circles on that... As well as there is more bright white in the current sticker, comparatively, to what is seen on the site itself, unless on other devices hubski doesn't have the gray background.

And choose an ink closer to the blue of the badge, if not the exact color.

At first glance to the unfamiliar, the current sticker could resemble a Domino's pizza logo. No disrespect intended, but we're taught to watch how others' could read or misread any symbol or logo, and you always want to be distinct from any others that could be confused with your mark... And for old people like me, dial phones and Ma Bell blue come to mind, and there may be other associations as well..Not that young people would get that reference, but your ideal would be immediate recognition, vs taking several seconds or more to figure it out... So more reason to get it in the exact proportions, which are unique.

You might play with placement of the badge in the square and look at the composition of the elements together.

Here, there's very elegant placement and relationship to each other of icons and text, their varied weights and such, that is currently not showing on the stickers.

You might also consider doing an almost, but not fully filled badge...

This was fun! (not the problem you had) but to try and figure out after the fact what you might have done to turn a complex situation around.

April is a key figure.

Her mother's motives and ambitions all include her daughter, as she has starred April in all her films. She may be the one person her mother would trust to hear difficult truths from.

I don't recall any mention of April seeming oblivious to the fact that things may not be going well, that her mother may be being taken advantage of, or in danger of being taken advantage. Or that her relationship with her mom isn't close...

It's not clear though if you have worked with her personally if you are doing post production, or how well she may or may not know you. It would be to your credit to approach April and layout the problems, and given the fact that you actually would (in the short term) personally gain from her mother's mistakes, that an effort to try and enlist her help to prevent her mother from making the mistakes which you would financially gain from, could gain some trust.

A plus would be if you don't also hit on her. :)

Once the problems or current obstacles are laid out (you may have needed to leave out some of the prior detail that may put her mother in too terrible light and make her feel defensive for her mother) you then discuss possible solutions.

Together you come up with (even if you lead her, she'll need buy in and ownership in the choices) at least two reasonable options to present to her mom. This she will talk to her mom alone, but bring you in to help when her mom is ready to hear more details about what she can do to begin to stop the train wreck.

The mother is able to listen to her daughter, and you, and possibly put aside the rush job, concentrate on getting an appropriately edited version (so you ultimately forgo your short term gain in favor of the groups's needs).

The internist producer gets a more sober and realistic view of the present circumstance that can only help the outcome now and in the future. Trust is strengthened rather than further strained. You don't always have to let people go over the brink for them to learn. Sometimes you just have to point out to them, that they really are on the very edge, and hope to god they listen.

Am I close?