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d_e_solomon  ·  2374 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Blood Will Tell

I served on a jury about seven years ago that convicted a person of criminally abusing their child. Much of the evidence was circumstantial and relied on medical practitioners. To this day, I firmly believe we got it right, but the thought always lingers - what if we didn't. Stories like this always bring up that case.

d_e_solomon  ·  4288 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The DDOS that brought down CloudFlare

I spent an hour this morning head scratching on why connectivity to my blog had gone down overnight. I felt a bit silly when I realized that it was cloudflare and not my server. Oh well.

d_e_solomon  ·  4296 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Why Ad Blocking is devastating to the sites you love

I'm in the desktop Linux contingent. Flash support on Linux (especially 64 bit) has always been extremely buggy and I will see massive CPU spikes whenever I have to view flash content. I also have no patience for sites that kick off sound or video automatically. So I can't functionally surf without an ad-blocker.

With that said, if I know the site doesn't use flash ads and if they don't start sound, I'll try to whitelist the domain for ads so I can support the site.

d_e_solomon  ·  4315 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Sick.

My brother in law - an ER doctor - said that the flu vaccine isn't effective this year. I read a really good article about how they have to guess what strains of flu will be present ahead of flu season.

Anyway, hope you feel better.

d_e_solomon  ·  4315 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Radiohead - Ceremony

I would give my left nut to have heard Joy Division do the original. Sigh.

d_e_solomon  ·  4316 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: War Nerd on Mali

Yes, he's still on a paywall, but you can read the past month or so for free. Reading older articles invokes the paywall.

d_e_solomon  ·  4625 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Panic Over Bullies - WSJ.com
After reading the comments at the WSJ, I remember why I subscribe to the Financial Times instead. Anyhoo, I had to give this one some thought.

I don't see bullying as a good or character building thing. There have been multiple studies done that demonstrate worse outcomes for kids that are bullied versus those that are not.

To me, the solution has to be holistic. Parents need to empower their kids to push back on bullies. Schools need to create an environment that reinforces that bullying isn't cool. Principals and teachers need to be prepared to discipline bullies when the issue is getting out of control. Kids need to learn empathy and that actions have consequences. Schools need to be held accountable to prevent systemic abuse. I don't think any of these items are particularly controversial.

That doesn't mean that children can't learn problem solving or conflict resolution - not every situation requires a teacher to get involved. There is a dividing line between isolated incident, personality conflict, and systemic abuse. The school's response needs to be proportionate to the intensity.

One of things to remember about being a kid in school versus an adult is that a kid has little choice on whether to go to school (or even what school to go to). If my boss is a dickwad, I can tell him to f himself and change jobs. If he assaults me, I can punch back or sue him. If he harasses me, then he gets to have a fun talk with HR. Most adults aren't in a situation where they will suffer eight straight years of abuse without recourse.

My coworker R's son was being bullied several years back. R's son was noticeably depressed and down over being bullied. R handled the situation well - he got his son a bit of therapy, enrolled him in karate classes, and discussed the issue with the school. R's son confronted the bully eventually, words were had, bully lost face, and that was that.

I would agree that the prevalence of bullying hasn't significantly increased from the good old 1960s, but I don't see that as a reason to not do anything. We don't have to tolerate the way things always were. Progress is possible.

d_e_solomon  ·  4644 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: J.P. Morgan Chase's Ugly Family Secrets Revealed
This is why having strong internal controls; well developed, documented, and followed processes; and computers that enforce those controls and processes are critical in business. If you cut corners, eventually you get burned. Never mind being an upstanding corporate citizen who cares about its customers, it's in a company's best interest to have processes and controls because this shit is expensive.
d_e_solomon  ·  4663 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Scott Ritter’s Other War
A tragic figure - admirable for his courage in speaking up against the war and deeply flawed in his deviance.
d_e_solomon  ·  4700 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Buffalo, Then and Now (1902-2011)
In Cincinnati, Fort Washington Way - where I-71 and I-75 merge together used to be above grade and divided the city from the river with a tangled mess of highway, bridge, and on ramps. Right around 2000, construction was completed to put the whole highway below grade. This change really helped integrate the city and the riverfront together. There's been significant investment now in developing the riverfront which will really help make the city more vibrant.

In a lot of ways, Buffalo has a similar problem with 190 ringing the waterfront. As long as it's above grade, it'll be difficult for Buffalo to develop it's waterfront.

d_e_solomon  ·  4700 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Brave New World -- the prequel
I hope that there is more to the story than that the Norwegian authorities removed the children because they were feeding them by hand. I'm not really seeing the Norwegian government side of the story, so I'm going to withhold judgement for now.
d_e_solomon  ·  4703 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: We're Eating Less Meat. Why? - NYTimes.com
My wife uses "The Vegetarian Epicure" to feed me (I'm a vegetarian), and everything she cooks out of it is delicious.
d_e_solomon  ·  4703 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: The Problem with Plurals
I love the evil gerund attacking the peaceful pronouns!
d_e_solomon  ·  4703 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski Update: Sharing by email
Awesome possum!
d_e_solomon  ·  4703 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Microsoft lock out other OS from Windows 8 ARM PCs/devices
I recently bought a droid razr. I've been really frustrated that the bootloader is locked and I can't put a custom rom on it, as Verizon and Motorola put a lot of cruft onto their phones. On the other hand I really love the device itself. It's a bit of a catch 22.
d_e_solomon  ·  4703 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: It's shit like this, Facebook...
On one hand, it's reasonable that facebook makes deals with certain partners to give them advantage, provided that they are not using monopoly power. On the other hand, I would prefer if their platform was more open. In some ways, having a more open platform is a better business move because it makes for more innovation in the development space.

Facebook is also probably trying to pump up their numbers right now in order to strengthen their IPO at the possible expense of their longer term health

d_e_solomon  ·  4707 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: If you could change something about Hubski, what would it be?
Two things:

- I'd like ways to be able to more easily discover content that I'm interested in. Some form of a recommendation system might be a possibility.

- If there is a large influx of people into Hubski, there will eventually need to be a way to control spam and so forth on popular hubs like politics or music.

d_e_solomon  ·  4706 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: A new "Things I won't Work With" is always cause for celebration.
Whenever I stumble over this blog, I realize that accounting systems just isn't an exciting career choice when compared to the alternatives.
d_e_solomon  ·  4706 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: If you could change something about Hubski, what would it be?
If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know.
d_e_solomon  ·  4709 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Recognizing anti-American propaganda - RT
This is a more general issue: people only rely on one or two sources for their news. Most news organizations have some slant - conscious or unconscious. If a person only relies on one or two sources, then there is a real risk of adopting that slant. Reading different news organizations helps a person develop a healthy perspective.
d_e_solomon  ·  4713 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Santorum Surge Brings Ethics Questions
That's why I always talk about how ethical I am. That way, I feel like I'm obligated to go and do naughty things :D
d_e_solomon  ·  4713 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Belarus gets much worse in two days.
The ironic part is that the US has put sanctions on Belarus for curbing freedom while SOPA is moving through congress. Hmm.
d_e_solomon  ·  4713 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Santorum Surge Brings Ethics Questions
Santorum claims to be an admirer of Josemaria Escriva who founded Opus Dei. So I'm going to make a WAG and suggest Santorum is a kinky m-f, so it would probably be entertaining at least.
d_e_solomon  ·  4713 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: God Wants You to Work Harder, and to Stop Complaining
This reminds me of an even worse version of the Walmart chant. Not only do you have to bloody chant out W-A-L-M-A-R-T, you can also pray to better serve Walmart.

I normally prefer to work in larger companies - having a large and diverse workforce usually keeps the lid on the crazy and requires a reasonable level of professionalism, but Walmart ::: shudder ::: I'll never work for.

d_e_solomon  ·  4713 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Santorum Surge Brings Ethics Questions
This seems to be a constant. A different candidate makes it to the top of the polls, gets more spotlight, everyone realizes how much he sucks, then falls apart. Look at Gingrich, Perry, and Bachman.
Dawkins wasn't putting on the moves, he just responded in a questionable manner. Some other dude was putting on the moves :)
I grew up with 12 years of Catholic school. I once had a religion teacher confide in me that he enjoyed the unbelievers in his class more as they understood his point and his argument better than most of the believers.

I actually really enjoyed listening to the discussions between the guy who auctioned off going to church for a year on ebay and the buying church. It was interesting listening to both sides understand each other better. I'll have to dig that one up at some point.

I honestly don't know much about her beyond that she tends to raise people's hackles. So called Elevatorgate is a large source of the controversy, but I really don't move in freethought or skeptic circles. Wikipedia has more information that seems at least reasonable.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rebecca_Watson

Yeah, I don't really read r/atheism either, but Rebecca Watson's article was submitted to r/truereddit as well. I agree with you on the need for spirituality even if the belief isn't there. For whatever reason, humans seem to have a need for some form of ritual togetherness.

My wife is in graphic design/illustration. She's been verboten from illustrating children's books as she tends to illustrate everything as creepy or will make political propaganda :D

d_e_solomon  ·  4715 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "The Right to Read"
I really was trying to avoid taking up another hobby :D My wife will kill me.