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onehunna · 4131 days ago · link · · parent · post: What Are/Were You Looking For (in a relationship)? Did You Find It?
I'm newly single, and if there's anything a break-up does, it's allow you to re-prioritize what you want in a partner. I don't like the idea of making a laundry list of specifications and requirements I want a chick to have, because there are so many different personality types out there and who wants to limit their options? But my main thing is: I want a girl who can act completely independent of me. Like, have her own thoughts. Make her own decisions. Do things on her own. Pursue her own passions. Without me. Dependance in a relationship isn't even a real relationship, I call that parasitism. That's an ugly thing and I'll bounce if I catch wind of that shit.