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lisaf  ·  4204 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Is it still a race if you don't have a chance of winning?

Thanks, I tend to agree. That I was proud of my accomplishments, and that I know how hard I worked is enough. And the feel of a race IS different. As you said, I too push myself to pass other runners, and increase rather than decrease my pace as I progress.

That a friend would belittle the feelings of achievement I had bothered me enough to seek an objective opinion, but now I think maybe from his vantage point on the sidelines it wasn't so much about belittling my accomplishment as it was about making himself feel better for not trying.

Either way, I appreciate your input :) And thanks for the welcome, I have already found several interesting discussions here on Hubski I look forward to joining the community!