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Jeshk0  ·  4234 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What do you do on your birthday?

    They seem to be a bit ego-centric and silly the older I get. If it weren't for the people around me, I wouldn't engage in ceremony of any sort.

To me it seems that with age it no longer matters whose birthday it is. It's just a celebration because there's a reason to celebrate. The reason I'm looking forward to my friend's birthday next month isn't because I'm excited that he's made it this far without dying, but because there's a reason to get together with some friends and enjoy each other's company. Birthdays aren't for a single person; they're for everybody.