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AnSionnachRua  ·  4280 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Expert: Guys don’t want casual sex! - Salon.com

Well, I'm no expert (obviously) so I could be wrong. Of course, that's within the "gay community" which doesn't necessarily imply that it's true for all gay men.

But yeah, I remember a conversation between my ex-girlfriend's brother and another one of his sisters where he, as a gay guy, was explaining how promiscuity within the gay community changed monogamous relationships - he said usually people reached an arrangement where the odd infidelity was considered acceptable, and people who wanted a strict monogamous relationship basically either had to compromise or find themselves single again.