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user-inactivated  ·  4344 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: A Mother's 18-Point iPhone Contract to Her Son

Yeah, I see where you're coming from (and it's true that the kids who go crazy in high school get it together for college -- I know; I'm one of them). But it's important to remember that we're dealing with a 13-year-old kid who probably doesn't need a phone anyway, and also that it's a goddamn privilege.

You can make the argument that having them sign a contract is just being pragmatic and imparting a life lesson of another sort: when you live independently, you damn well better be ready to honor contracts to landlords, bursars, the telephone company and everything in between.