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goobster  ·  1246 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: June 30, 2021

Go now. Miss the funeral. You can mourn in your own way at home. You can't be with her again once she's gone.

So sorry you have to make this decision. I've been there. You need to prepare yourself for when you leave from your visit. You know it will be the last time you see her, and you want to put some thought into how you want that interaction to go. Be genuine. Be honest. Be true. Honor the person by giving yourself fully to that moment. They will appreciate it, and you will carry it with you for the rest of your life.

So sorry...