Do I want one? "Why aren't you eating?" Swallow the food, not the emotion. "I can't, I'm nervous around you..." Swallow the food, not the emotion. "I'm back to where I was before the break up with him...."
--- Oh. ".... But we can continue building a solid friendship despite the attraction..."
--- What does 'back before the break up' mean? Were the last 4 months not building upon a friendship? "Hey, I just wanted to let you know. My husband encouraged me to tell you: She referenced him as her boyfriend of [how long since the beginning]."
--- Huh. Was I being used as an emotional crutch? But I had acted out of good faith under the information I had. I think. How am I going to define my relationship with her in this dynamic...