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kleinbl00  ·  2586 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Pubski: October 25, 2017

Here's the funny thing tho

The more self-esteem you have, the easier it is to deliver bad news to someone else. The more self-esteem you have, the more likely you are to date other people with self-esteem.

It's almost like the people who schlub you like that are schlubs, and if you don't want to be schlubbed, don't date schlubs.

I recognize that the pool is often shallow, and we seek any port in a storm. But there are better people out there, and they treat people better as a matter of course. If you can convince yourself you're worthy of their attentions, you are.