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kleinbl00  ·  3013 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: What do I do if I don't have a vision for my life's work?

Ain't that always the question.

1) Volunteer.

2) Go to church.

3) Join a club.

4) Continuing ed.

5) Sports organizations.

6) Hobby organizations.

I tell you what - you spend time at a soup kitchen, a unitarian church, the Freemasons, a cooking class, a climbing club and a model airplane flight chapter and you will be anything but solitary. That's different from not feeling isolated - and you should never conflate the two - but you will have had ample opportunities to find and bond.

I also recommend having children. You will find yourself forced to spend time with parents you never would associate with otherwise, and you might even enjoy it.