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user-inactivated  ·  3384 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: My customers are my friends. Ummm.... NO, THEY'RE NOT!

    Do people not get annoyed when someone does that? "Yes, I just said that (and now I'm annoyed)" is what I think when I read the salesperson's response. As for mirroring, I just think "are you copying me?" suspicious squint. I do realize that you put disclaimers at the bottom for newbies about being genuine, but I'm curious as to how this actually works. Maybe I shouldn't own a business.

It's a dialog template. You're supposed to use your own personal speaking voice and mannerisms.

For example, my response to such a situation would be along the lines "Yeah, that's pretty rough. Setbacks are always a bit hard to swallow. So do you think if things turn around you can hit your goal sooner or is 2016 pretty much a hard date for you now?"

Not only does it allow you to sympathize and connect, but it allows your further opportunity to probe and offer solutions.