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kleinbl00  ·  3388 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Beware the Bachelorette! A Report From the Straight Lady Invasion of Gay Bars.

Here you go:

Women go to gay bars because they want to be able to let their guard down. Therefore, a woman at a gay bar has her guard down.

QED.

"more offended" does not mean "more likely to reject advances" because the entire mating dance is a combative ritual predicated on aggravation and posturing. You can dislike that but it won't change the fact that men wouldn't do it if it wasn't a successful ploy.

Don't hate the playa hate the game.