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cgod  ·  3397 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: How and why did you become committed?

What kind of relationship commitment are you talking about?

I'd strongly advise you not to get married until you reach your thirties. There are so many things you don't know about what can be had from a relationship. Playing the field is will teach you so much about yourself and what you value in a partner.

If your commitment is merely not seeing others than that's fine. I think having a few meaningful long term relationships is great practice for settling down some day.

When you start looking to settle down forever you should have few doubts in your choice, having finally found a person you don't want to live without.