Unfortunately the planet is no longer big enough for humans to sustain themselves as free and independent family/social units, as prehistoric humans did. If you want to start your own country and make your own rules, make a micronation and fight for your independence, but don't expect that you can just mooch off of society by continuing to interact with the members of that society. If you want to be part of a group of people, you have to play by the rules of the group. If those people's rules are set unilaterally by a tyrant, they're probably shitty rules to live by, akin to extortion. If those rules are set through the consent of the members of the group, well, that is the will of the group and they are under no obligation to allow you to be a part of the group if you choose not to follow their rules.

You really think any group should be forced to allow you to be a member if you choose not to follow their rules? I get the impression you don't really want to talk hypotheticals here, so I'll say this: here in America, we have "freedom" or whatever you want to call it; you can "buy" land and you "own" that land, but that land is still under the jurisdiction of the federal government, the state government, the county government, and perhaps even a local government. If you want true freedom, without those airquotes, as in you are lord, king and commander, beholden to no one but yourself, you have to fight to the death for it.

I hate to be the one shatter your illusions of what the difference between "freedom" and freedom is, but most of us have already wised up to this. Like I said before, the planet is no longer big enough for humans as a species to sustain themselves as free and independent family units, so I'm willing to accept the airquotes around my freedom. As a compromise, I would like to live in a true democracy (either direct or representative) where myself and my peers have a real and equal say in the decision making process of the state that governs my life and property. Unfortunately, the government I live under does not resemble this, and I'm willing to join with others to fight for a more equal say in the governing process, but if you want to be on your own, then you have to fight on your own. No one is going to fight for your rights if your responsibilities end at your doorstep.