I mute people who are dicks. During periods of immigrant quiet I mute people who are dicks to me in at least two rounds of discussion. During periods of immigrant noise I mute people who are dicks to others. it has nothing to do with dissenting opinion or disagreement. b_b and I often disagree. mk and I often disagree. The trick is we disagree without ad hominem attacks on each other, disparaging comments or belittling dialogue.

I'm happy to say I haven't even really run across much in the way of ad hominem attacks yet, but it sounds like I've just been lucky. This sounds like a totally reasonable use of muting, though.

I unmute people who I work things out with. Something everyone fails to consider when bitching about muting is it's completely reversible. Muted? I'll bet you can figure out why. Don't want to be muted? Work it out with the person who muted you. Can't contact them? find someone who mutually follows both of you and get them to intercede. Learn to recover from your misunderstandings and the world will be a better place.

Personally, I don't care that much with the one person who muted me. I feel like I've refrained from personally attacking anyone on Hubski. If they want to mute me that's their business, but it did make me think about how people use it.

If I post content, I am 100% within my rights to keep the discussion of that content dick-free. I am doing a service to those who follow my content by doing so. If I post something about microbiology, and the best microbiologist on Hubski is also a dick, his dickish comments have no place in the discussion. Maybe he hasn't been a dick to you. Maybe he never will be. But if I post it, and he's been a dick to me in the past, odds are he's going to be a dick in the future and the discussion should be about microbiology, not about me and the dick.

Here you're detailing ideal use of Hubski. Yes, if you're being reasonable in your muting practices, which it sounds like you are, you're basically creating better threads for other people. However, not everyone is so thoughtful or discerning. Let's recall that my example was not of one person being a dick to someone else, but of their disagreeing about Israel. We'll go ahead and say that it's explicitly not in a racist way.

As eightbitsamurai mentions, the undertone of this discussion is always entitlement and it's always driven by people who are new here. This time it's unusual in that a good bulk of our new users actually signed up for an account the last two or three times they got pissed off at Reddit but then forgot about it until recently, but it doesn't change the fact that it's people with under a hundred comments complaining about the behavior of people with over a hundred comments. LOOK. The person who posted that thread you want to comment on? they don't owe you shit. the world will continue in its orbit without your pithy contribution and, amazingly enough, will likely be more civil through your absence.

It's really not about me, man. I don't feel the deep desire to respond to this person's posts. It's just an aspect of Hubski's moderation system that I hadn't considered before and one that sounds like it might run into some scaling issues if it's abused.

If you don't like being muted, stop being the kind of person who gets muted. If you don't think you are, then chances are good you and the person who muted you have nothing to say to each other anyway.

I don't think I am the kind of person who gets muted. From what this thread seems to indicate ideological muting is something of a rarity. Some people do it but not most people.

This is not a site about how Jeff and Jeri can't get along. This is a site about thoughtful discussion. You're muted because someone judged you incapable of it. Work it out or move on because those of us who have been here a while have been through half a dozen of these shirt-rending, hair-tearing rap sessions about the evils of censorship and I'm here to tell ya -

Every new influx of Reddit uncouth causes an expansion not just of muting, but of the mute options available.

Again, I know you wrote this all at once and I'm responding to it all at once but you seem to have decided to make the tail end of this post personal so I'm going to repeat myself for emphasis. This isn't about me. This isn't about the person who muted me, I don't care about that person and I don't expect to suddenly be muted by 1000 other people. This thread exists because it hadn't even occurred to me that anyone on Hubski would use the muting function in this way and I was wondering how many people did and what else they used it for.

That is literally all. Please direct your hostility toward users complaining about being muted toward someone who is actually complaining about being muted. Thank you.