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sounds_sound  ·  4627 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "That's not my salad"
I was a server for 5 years or so myself. I always put the bill in the center of the table UNLESS someone had graciously presented themselves as the host during the course of the evening. 99% of the time that person was a man. I don't blame servers for presumably handing the bill to the man, I just think they're bad servers :) P.s. I would also serve women first, without exception. Is that sexist - or chivalrous?