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Saydrah  ·  4628 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: "That's not my salad"
i was in a relationship where I paid for almost every outing, and that happened ALL THE FREAKING TIME. I can't blame individual servers for it, though, because I'm pretty sure the most likely candidate to take it out of their tip would be a misguided, insecure "alpha male" insulted by NOT having the check given directly to him. I just rolled my eyes and took it from my then-boyfriend, or handed him my card and let him fill it out.