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greenitalics  ·  3513 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Hubski, What are you working on right now?

I feel you, been going through similar feelings with my girlfriend of 3 years. We talked - just aren't sure we are really 'for' each other anymore. We've pushed through difficulties in the past and gotten through tough times, but 3 years later and we just don't know if we should continue involvement with each other.

Anyway... point is that it's quite hard to know when to walk away vs. when to stay. And I think the only way to know what to do in these situations is to accumulate experience, and it's kinda impossible to know what the right call is in the moment.