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_refugee_ · 3741 days ago · link · · parent · post: Let's talk about two things they say never to talk about:
From Directly after your quote of me: Clearly, my umbrage is not truly directed at those who say having a child will change your life. Children remain an if, not a when, for me.I agree that having a child certainly is going to do that and also that it's a big decision and shouldn't be taken lightly. I don't believe it's a decision that has to leave emotional scars that cripple one for life or which one still has to be burdened with years after the fact.