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_refugee_ · 3764 days ago · link · · parent · post: Lil's Book of Questions: What Did You Learn about Yourself from Your Last Relationship? Part II
If you decided "we" wouldn't work because really, you didn't think it would work for "you," then I don't think it was really a decision that needed her input. If you decided "we" wouldn't work because you really didn't think it would work for the two of you, but it was a circumstance which perhaps could have been affected by a conversation that the two of you would have had about how to resolve those problems or prevent them, then yes, her input could potentially have changed your decision. The decision to breakup isn't always one that needs the other partner's input, that's all.