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_refugee_  ·  3772 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: Who are you, Hubski?

I'm sorry, yes, that's absolutely what I mean.

When she said "I don't think there's much to tell," and then you stopped hanging out so much, it sounds like she politely (or not-very-communicatively) was telling you she didn't want to see you any more.

"Secrets, secrets are no fun. Secrets, secrets hurt someone." - The Office

Secret relationships aren't a good idea and I think it is a red flag if one person is actively encouraging the relationship to stay secret.