I have so many friends that do this. There's nothing wrong with that if that's what you want, but if you want something more with the person then that's not going to help. Eventually either something happens, which usually doesn't end well, or both people move on from the situation. Maybe her going on a study abroad will be good for both of you. I have one friend that does stuff kind of like this, the whole talking about everything thing. Now that I'm single we're very open about our sex lives and what we're looking for to each other and all that. The difference is that once she's out here in June we've got some concert tickets and other plans to hang out.If I look at this objectively I'm an emotional booty-call and being somewhat taken advantage of. But I'm a good kicked puppy, I'll keep coming back /end sobstory