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_refugee_  ·  3978 days ago  ·  link  ·    ·  parent  ·  post: 6 Stereotypical American Weddings

Once upon a time I was engaged. During this time period I did some research into the "average" wedding. Turns out the "average" wedding costs $35k.

Fuck everything about that noise. I'd so much rather have a down payment on a house than a wedding.

I've decided if I ever do get married, here are my requirements/desires (and don't make fun of my short list, it has taken me a very long time even to get this far. I was never one to daydream about my wedding day).

- backyard wedding

- booze

- all my friends

- dancing

That's all I can imagine I would want. I assume I would probably wear white and have a dress of some sort but frankly I don't even know what I would want it to look like. I would just want everyone to have a whole ton of fun.