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user-inactivated · 3995 days ago · link · · parent · post: Being Against Gay Marriage Doesn't Make You a Homophobe
Oh, I wouldn't blame her insecurity. There are plenty of ragingly insecure poly people. And I might be reading you wrong but it seems you've portrayed or at least insinuated that polyamory and commitment are mutually exclusive. I disagree. It's definitely possible to have strong commitments that don't include exclusivity. A current relationship I'm in has a stronger emotional connection and more clearly defined commitment than any relationship I've been in previously, including the monogamous ones, and I honestly feel it's because we're trying to act the way that polyamory idealizes, and not just sexually.